Do These Things And Your Man Will Respect Your Relationship

Most men don't cheat because they don't love you anymore. Hence, some men cheat because they want more variety in their s3x lives. Therefore some complain of being bored, and want to feel adored by their partners. Apparently, they want to assert their freedom, and perhaps get rid of disappointing you. While this is the case with some, it's because sometimes you are speaking different love languages; while some men say it is a biological directive to procreate with as many women as possible for survival of the species.

Whatever the reasons are, men have an innate need to feel respected and appreciated by their partner. It is most disconcerting for a man to realize he has disappointed his partner in some way. He wants to be your hero. However, below are some ways to prevent your man from cheating:

Be Open To Experimentation

It can be easy to get comfortable. Perhaps, fear of the unknown can stop you from being open to different sexual experiences. Allow your man to try new things with you. If you won't, there will be someone else who will. This is not to engage in sexual activity you find repulsive but allow yourself to experience new things with the man you love.

Don't Over-accommodate

Most times in a relationship, ladies can become too accommodating. Men get into relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime partner looks like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may have dated casually. Women work to become the person their partner wants them to be and in doing so, they lose themselves. Hence, one day, their man realizes this is what he asked for but he isn't sure it's what he really wants. Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.

Don't Become Too Controlling

Often without realizing it, when we get into relationships we attempt to control the other person to do what works best for us. We engage in destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming, criticising, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or rewarding to control.

Make Sure He Knows How Much You Appreciate Him

At times when ladies 'get' the guy and get married, they begin to get a false sense of security. Thus, remember, all relationships are voluntary. A person can leave at any time, especially now there are increase in cases of divorce around the world. Thus, with the increasing rate of divorce in this country, you need to remember how important it is to maintain a positive relationship, not simply to acquire one.

Let Him Have Time To Himself

Some men cheat because they begin to feel caged in a relationship. Therefore engaging in an affair provides them the sense of freedom they lose in the relationship. Allow your man time for himself without you. Don't try to monopolise all your guy's time. Be open to time apart for him to spend with friends, pursue hobbies, etc. so he does not feel he has no freedom.

Be Aware Of Your Emotions

Whether or not we are aware of it, ladies are masters at using their emotions to communicate volumes without speaking any words. Thus, we communicate anger, rage, sadness and disappointment that is received by our partners. Instead of taking that as a cue to do something different, some men begin to look for another partner who idolises them the way you used to. Don't forget, your man wants to know he lights you up not that he is constantly disappointing you.

Prioritise Your Relationship

Many at times, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is also having an 'affair' that's not sexual. It's more socially appropriate. This 'affair' takes the form of prioritising something, anything, over the relationship. This could be a job, children, a sick relative, a charity or anything that puts her man lower on her totem pole than the first position. Prioritise your relationship over everything else. This is the relationship you want to last for all your life, remember. Other things will fade away and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it carefully.

Be willing To Initiate S3x

Most of the men equate s3x with desirability. Help your man to feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way.

Learn His Love language if you are not familiar.

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