LOVE and RELATIONSHIP

Is been discovered that LOVE doesn't guarantee success in a relationship. Thus, LOVE cannot help you stick to one person all year round. On the other hand, CHEATING isn't always a product of not LOVING your partner. Consequently, LOVING someone does not guarantee you not falling in LOVE with someone else.

A RELATIONSHIP works mostly because of our HEADS and not our HEARTS. It works because of our EMOTIONAL MATURITY, EMPATHETIC INTELLIGENCE and SELF-DISCIPLINE. Perhaps, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, and curvy, and God fearing people than your partner in relationship. During those times, LOVE alone would be the last thing to help you stick to your partner, whom you have LOVED all the while. SELF-CONTROL will help you. EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE will come to your rescue. COMMITMENT will keep you going. With the above characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, your partner will rank first (number 1) in your life.

Do you think happily married people don't see better people than the partner they’re married to? Do you think they don't feel or wish they’re with the other person? Do you think they don't catch feelings for that person at times? Sure they do! But understanding that COMMITMENT is greater than the feelings, and thus great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses you would never compromise your RELATIONSHIP.

You can and may fall in love with anyone, but building a RELATIONSHIP takes absolutely more than what attracted you to that person. It takes more than LOVE. We easily LOVE when it's convenient and sweet. But what happens when things are not convenient, sweet and rosy? However, feelings starts to drop until we use our HEAD or it drops to zero when we use our HEART. Thus, here the responsibility lies to make the relationship work. Not LOVE’S responsibility, YOUR responsibility.

RELATIONSHIP cannot be READY-MADE. Is YOUR responsibility to build it, it's never LOVE’S responsibility. It requires COMMITMENT, MATURITY and EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. In marriage, I bet you, it's not just love that keeps the couple together for life. COMMITMENT, MATURITY, EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, SELF-CONTROL and DISCIPLINE does greater part of the work. Everyone falls in LOVE and it takes little or no effort to do that. But to stay in LOVE, to building a RELATIONSHIP, it takes only the strong in HEART and HEAD that are committed to do that.

Find that one person that is so SPECIAL and COMMIT to him or her. DISCIPLINE yourself and BRIDLE your EMOTIONS. Building a RELATIONSHIP is not an easy task. It's like building a CAREER. It's like pursuing a DREAM. GOLDS and TROPHIES are not easily to come by. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your HEADS together. You can scale through the CHALLENGING times by staying FOCUSED and COMMITTED. The LOVE that attracts both of you together is not the LOVE that will keep you together. Be EMOTIONALLY STRONG. Be SELF-DISCIPLINED. Above all, involve GOD in your RELATIONSHIP. #DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily.