By ChiDubem Michael
The rate of broken marriages and relationships are seriously alarming presently as it is on high increase in this generation. Thus, one will be wondering, what the cause or causes of these marriage and relationship conflicts are? How could a lady love her partner today and say yes to him, then tomorrow the love disappears? Why will a man violently assault the lady he claim to have loved and asked to be his partner? Why would a lady not be content with what she have, and the man lusting for another lady?
The truth is that many relationships and marriages today are not built on right and solid foundation. Many people go into a relationship and marriage for different reasons. For some, that guy is very cute and handsome; the lady is very pretty and beautiful. For others, the guy is wealthy, he have a lot of cars... For the guys maybe the lady is very good on bed. And so the reasons goes on and on.
However, for a successful marriage and relationship, is important you heed to these counsel that would make or mar your relationship or marriage;
- Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime; set your priority right.
- A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married; you should know that.
- Caring hearts never lack caring hands; I suppose you know.
- If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends; that's sure.
- It is better to be single than to be married to the wrong person; very true.
- Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness; there shouldn't be a problem with that.
- If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny; that could be disastrous.
- When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life; Is the person in your life your a bless or the opposite?
- Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage; I suppose you know.
- Never be yoked to anyone who will not be yoked to God; it could be conflict.
- Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun; how could you do that?
- A successful marriage is always a triangle: God, a man and a woman; very important.
- Avoid a contentious woman; she could be worse than Jezebel.
- Avoid: a hot tempered man, a womanizer, a drunkard; you may not and can never trust or predict him.
- Why you marry is as important as who you marry; take note of that.
- Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice; don't make mistake.
- A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing who to marry; you need get your choice right.
- Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding; with make-up any woman can look beautiful.
- Major characteristics to look for in a woman you want to marry: Fear of God, Wisdom and Discretion; makes her a virtuous woman.
- The best and easy way to earn a woman’s respect is to show her love excessively; women don't run away from where they're pampered.
- Love is not blind; infatuation and lust are blind.
- Love puts God first, while lust puts sex first; you should know the difference.
- Test every love with your peace of mind; if it is absent, God is not there.
- Desperation leads to frustration; be careful.
- Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin; you can be patient.
- Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled; remember your vow.
- Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap; you don't go back.
- It is better to be single and believing God to be married than to be married and believing in God to be single.
- A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage; don't marry out of pity.
- Do not marry money or material things; marry a person.
- Make yourself marriageable; prepare yourself for marriage.
- Words that echo peace in a marriage: I love you; I am sorry, Thank you.
- Bad marriage could be as good as hell fire. Therefore, consult and involve God before you go into marriage.
I'm sure you can add your own good counsel to the list...what do you think?
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