Build the kind of belief you desire for yourself

Do you want to enjoy high level of self-confidence? Then, you must be able to make up your mind to free yourself from any influence that cause you to feel negative, unhappy for any reason and that's not healthy for your growth and self-development. Take full control over your thinking and emotion; ensure that what you are allowing into your mind is consistent with the things you want and the person desire to be.

Don't allow your 'hot buttons'  to control your emotions and thinking. Hot button is a habitual negative reaction to experiences. Reaction such as; anger, pissed, upset. Be in charge of your mind, identify in advance the various external factors that cause you to become angry or upset. Try as much as possible not to react or respond to negativity negatively. Rather, with smile respond, and take a deep breath and just remain calm.

The more you respond to negativity positively with smile and calmness, the easier it will become for you to take control of your thinking and emotions. Then you'll become more positive and optimistic. Your self-confidence will go up and you will feel more in charge of your own life, instead of life controlling you. Self-suggestion is your key to building the kind of belief system deep within yourself that leads to unshakable self-confidence and worth.

Seize and turn negative or unexpected situation into a moment of calmness and demonstrate self-control (this is called Law of Substitution). See negative situations as an opportunity for self-mastery and growth (this is called Mind Game). Ultimately, you're responsible for whatever happens to you, and especially more responsible for your responses to the inevitable ups and downs of daily life. According to Roosevelt Eleanor, "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent".

Accept responsibility for your life situation, totally, without excuses and with no blame on others. "You're where you are and what you are because you have decided to be there. No one makes you do anything or feel anything" - Henry Ford. You can choose the action, before you act, but you cannot choose or control the consequence or reaction afterwards. The starting point of success is the acceptance of reality. What cannot be cured must be endowed. Positive words, repeated often enough with enthusiasm will eventually be accepted by subconscious mind and boost your self-confidence.

#DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily. Is awesome Wednesday, good morning and do have yourself and great day.