Relationships are built on two way streets. They have to be mutually beneficial. Each side has to bring something of value, otherwise they will not endure. However, values are standards by which attitudes are formed. It helps you put your attitude into action, as people gravitate towards what what they love. There's nothing you accomplished or will accomplish that is directly or indirectly result of someone else's help. Really there's no limit to what can be accomplished when no one cares who gets the credit.
Accept others unconditionally; earn trust by being trustworthy; do nice things without expecting anything in return; be loyal, even when it may not be the popular thing to do. Listen to others not to form judgments but to understand their point of view. True friends don't always tell you what you want to hear; they tell you what you need to hear. Goethe says, "treat people as they are and they remain that way. Treat them as though they were what they can be and we help them become what they are capable of becoming".
It's important you surround yourself with caring, trustworthy, honest, positive, goal-oriented people. Their positive change will motivate and inspire you. Avoid the set of people that are of narrow perspective, and tend to devote considerable time and effort to judging and critising the actions of others. Their approach ranges from being openly critical and demoralising to offering such casual critiques. They play blame game and take no responsibility. They're helpless and hopeless as well as highly frustrating. They shouldn't take a spot on your relationship. "Be curious, not judgmental" - Walt Whitman.
#DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily. Beautiful morning to you, and do have yourself great weekend.
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