No excuse associating with disfunctional people

You have control of your minutes, hours, day, week, month, and year. Stop running around being on the receiving end that whatever people want to double on you, you showed up. You accepted the invite to your house, you invited these people in your life. You're in a relationship with that man, you're a relationship with that woman. That's you.

So how do you feel at the end of your night? How easy and how convenient is it; that you blame everything and everybody for the things going on in your life. There is a such thing that you should be in a positive. A great person should have best of intentions towards everybody, and share this feeling that you can't break. But most of us wakes up every day looking for pain in dis-functional drama of unemployment, being broke or bankrupt, struggling, dropping every excuse about our childhood, education, the dis-function that you grow up in, that's stopping us from becoming successful.

You don't like your friends, why are you still with them? You don't trust your manager, your organisation, your company, why are you still there? Do you really expect your life and career to be any different from associating with some things, people and situations. Are the things you're doing and the people you're hanging out with, in places and the circle that you're traveling; does that reflect a person that actually love him or herself? If you love yourself, why would you associate with such people? You know what they're saying about you behind your back? You know they're jealous and envious of who you are, and the things you have going on in your life and career.

You're aware they don't like you, they made it clear, they sent you every sign imaginable and possibly seen, but because you're so desperate, you allowed those people around you and life; you continued to go back. You continued to show up to every thing they invite you to, knowing how they feel  or and what they say about you. Get it clear, I'm not encouraging separatism, or want people to just be alone at home with no friends, family and nothing to do. I'm saying at this point you're old enough and mature enough to understand the difference in good people and bad people. When you're associating with negative, dark and dis-functional people, you cannot expect yourself to go to sleep at night and rest. You cannot expect yourself to feel good about your day, when you're including negative and dis-functional people in your day.

Stop being lazy person that follow excuses, living in self-pity or come up with every excuse in the world to why you aren't winning or being successful. Because you're with wrong and negative company, dis-functional people, you expect positive result. Is time you get off the self-pity, blame and excuses; and stop complaining. You could be the reason why you are not succeeding or winning. You could be the reason why you're employed. Surrounding and associating yourself around dis-functional and negative people is enough obstacle to your success.

#DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily. Good afternoon, and do have yourself a great day.