One of the
most influential and popular personality on Linkedln and the author of almost thirty business and communication books, Jeff Haden, explained how some people can easily gain the
trust of everyone and create a positive image of themselves. Thus, below are what makes a person very charming as you puzzle on what the characteristics are.
Charming People Are Not Afraid To Lose
Charming people don’t
try to win at everything. On the contrary, their aim is to give more without
expecting anything in return. For them, it’s not difficult to admit their
mistakes, failures, or talk about their weaknesses. Perhaps, it’s something most people cannot do.
They can openly say,
“I’m jealous of you,“ or ”I can’t do this, please teach me," because they
know people appreciate honesty and real emotions.
Charming People Show They’re Sincerely Glad To Meet You
Maintaining eye contact
is really important in a conversation, and people who have charisma know this
for sure. They smile when you smile. They frown or nod when you do. They don’t
just try to repeat everything after you. They are focused on what you’re saying
and listen to you carefully, paying attention to all your emotions and words.
Such feedback helps you
find a common ground with anyone and gain the trust of your converser.
Charming People Look For Mutual Understanding
Most people unconsciously
look for contradictions and disagreements, which can lead to a fall-out rather
than a conversation. Contrarily, charming and charismatic people always seek common ground
with everybody.
Hence, try to find
something in common with your converser. Apparently, it helps to start an interesting
conversation and get positive emotions.
Charming People Use The Power Of Touching
Touch is a powerful
tool that helps people to understand emotions better. In one experiment,
scientists tried to express 12 emotions by touching their interlocutors without
words. It turned out that in 50-83% of the cases of the emotions were expressed
correctly.
Thus, when you
want to congratulate someone, just think how to do it better. To shake hands or
to pat the person on the shoulder; this could be depended on a situation, sex and status of the person. This will help
to prove the sincerity of your words, express the right emotions, and gain the
trust of your converser.
Charming People Are Good At Using Facial Expressions And Gestures
Likable people express
their emotions incredibly well and accurately. Apparently, they can turn the most
boring story into a really enthralling conversation. By gesticulating and
making faces (when it’s appropriate); hence, expressing the mood of their story. This helps to genuinely kindle the interest of who they're having conversation with.
Charming People Are Not Afraid To Look Silly
Maybe skating or
Twister is not their strong point, but they’re absolutely not afraid to be
awkward. In the contrary,
people respect them even more because of this characteristics. When you’re ready to
demonstrate your weaknesses and you’re not afraid to look silly, people don’t
laugh at you. They laugh with you. Because everybody understands that all of
this is fine.
Charming People Are Good At Asking Questions
Charming people can
very easily make you talk about yourself. They don’t hesitate to ask questions
and openly talk about themselves as well. These people genuinely want to know
what you’re thinking, and this makes them trustworthy.
As soon as you’ve found
out something about a particular person, just ask them more questions about it
and tell something similar about yourself. This will show you have something in
common that can become an interesting topic for conversation.
Charming People Don't Forget Names
Charismatic people
always remember names and other little things very accurately. The fact that
someone says your name when you have only known each other for a short while or
when you have only met once makes you feel more important in the conversation. Call the person by
name, and remember the names of his friends, relatives, or a pet. This person
will only think positively of you.
Charming People Listen More And Talk Less
Most people can’t
listen at all. Everybody wants to share their own news. And it’s also a nice
feeling when you’re telling a story and seeing how everybody is listening to
you carefully and emotionally reacting to your words. Charming people listen,
and they love listening more than talking. This helps them learn more
interesting things about a person and find something in common.
#DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily. Beautiful Morning, and do have yourself a happy Sunday and fruitful week ahead.
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