Dos and Don'ts To Avoid Fights in Relationship

The coexistence of two has happy moments and a lot of romanticism. However, there are times when everything is not flower (roses), or all pleasant. Perhaps, a motive, however small, is enough to begin a discussion of them. The fights between couples are normal, as they can happen to any couple. Apparently, it is best to avoid these fights whenever possible. Below are five tips to avoid fights in the relationship.

Keep Calm and Think Before You Speak

When nervousness takes over, it is difficult to maintain control. Hence, speaking everything that comes to mind without thinking of the consequences, including some insults, can generate unnecessary wear and tear. Apparently, be careful not to talk and do things that you may regret. As impossible as it may seem, keep your cool and think hard before saying something.

No Comparisons

Aside misuse of words, another common mistake that can end up in a fight is to compare your partner with other people. And the problem gets even worse if the comparison is with the ex. If you do not like this or that feature of your partner, if some attitude bothers you, do not make comparisons. It’s best to try to talk peacefully. After all, we all have flaws.

You Need to Have Waist Play

To live in peace and avoid fights, whether in courtship or marriage, having waist play is essential. This means that you must speak your mind, but you also need to listen and respect your partner’s point of view.

Someone Has to Give

Many fights in the relationship could also be avoided if the wills of both were shared. The will of one or the other should not prevail every time, someone will always have to give in. Trying to force, imposing things turns the relationship into a “tug-of-war” dispute and in the end the two are overcome by fatigue, no one gets the better.

Common Sense is Always an Ally

Each relationship has its own particular problems, but in all cases common sense is always an ally to avoid conflict. When problems arise, do not be afraid to explain how you feel at the time and how you would like the situation to be resolved. Assess the possibilities, the best way to resolve the situation and try to reach a decision by mutual agreement.

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