What Defines Love?

Love is a beautiful thing. Don't allow the bad experiences to blind you from the greatness and joy that it can bring. You have to do what is truly best for you; if it's to cut someone off completely, why not do it.

You can’t keep entertaining the wrong man or lady, and thus expecting to receive the right one.

Don't entertain a man or a lady who only wants to play games with you. You're to create a helpmate, not a playmate.

Therefore, it’s not about finding a man or a lady to complete you. It’s about completing yourself first and receiving the right person who complements you.

Nobody should have to chase after anybody. It should be two people running towards each other to build an amazing relationship. Do you hear that?

Proverbs 27:22 have it that, Even If You Beat Fools Until They're Half Dead, You Still Can't Beat Their Foolishness Out Of Them.

Today, don't confuse what you want with what you need. Doing so will create an attachment to things that may not truly be best for you.

However, should in case you have no idea what true love is and it's not (which is lust), it's simplified below for you:

• Love is patient, but lust can't wait; it is impulsive.
• Love does not envy. Lust seeks more than it earns.
• Love is kind; but lust is cruel, critical and manipulative.
• Love does not boast. Lust builds self at another's expense.
• Love is not proud. Lust is easily threatened.
• Love is not rude. Lust is demanding and uncaring.
• Love is not easily angered. Lust is temperamental and retaliates.
• Love keeps no record of wrongs. Lust does not forget offences.
• Love rejoices in the truth. Lust encourages lies and covers up a misdeed.
• Love does not delight in evil. Lust commits wrong to get its own way; rationalises.
• Love always protects. Lust takes to gain its own ends and lacks concern for consequences to others.
• Love always trusts. Lust is suspicious and jealous.
• Love always hopes. Lust says one chance and you're out.
• Love always perseveres. Lust backs out when it's no longer convenient.
• Love never fails, it is constant, enduring and faithful to the end. Lust ceases when self is no longer served, it is fickle, insecure and unfaithful.

Do have yourself a Happy Valentine's Day. Express Love to people around you, and less privileged. Dubemicky Loves you!