45 Renos Nuggets: Marriage Counsel for Married and Single

Why run to Pastors, Imams, marriage counselors, and others who have no pedigree and have failed in their marriages for advice and counsels each time you have misunderstanding or issue with your spouse or partner? Why not pay attention to your little mistakes, be sincere to yourself, accept your errors, and fix the problem with you and your relationship. There’s no problem or challenge in your relationship that you cannot fix if you’re willing and ready to fix.

The problems and challenges with most relationships are that we are naive, and aren’t sincere to ourselves, priorities are not right, love for material things and money, etc. Thus, today we have more broken marriages and relationships, than successful ones. So, our attitude and mind-set towards marriage and relationships is the real cause or causes to the problems and challenges we face in many marriage and relationships. Therefore, in present time is easy thing to get married but a different ball game to stay married until death do us part.

Below are forty-five (45) Renos Nuggets; Marriage Counsel for Married and Single which I have put together to help us get our priority, attitude and mind-set right when it comes to marriage and relationship:

• Marry a prayerful wife if you want to be powerful. The more her prayers go up to God, the more God's power comes down to you.
• Marry a prayerful wife because no matter how beautiful a wife is her beauty won’t help you deal with tough times when they come.
• You are not the only one attracted to a sexy woman. Problems are attracted to sexy wives. They are repelled by prayerful wives.
• The most common reason for failure in men is marrying the wrong woman. You need a peaceful home to have a thriving life.
• Before saying I do to him, know how he acts when angry. Before saying I do to her, know how she looks without wig and make-up.
• Don’t just marry any pretty girl you meet. Vegetable and weed look alike but one nourishes you while the other will poisons you.
• Don’t just marry a man because he is rich. Many wife beaters are rich, but their wealth doesn't soften their blows to your face.
• Women with big cleavage make good wives. Women with big hearts make better wives. But women with a big God make the best wives.
• Prepare for marriage and the wedding will take care of itself. Only prepare for your wedding and your marriage will fall apart.
• Before spending all your money impressing guests at your wedding, remember that marriage is a journey not an event.
• Invite many people to your wedding, but invite only God to your marriage. People make weddings sweet and make marriages bitter.
• Dear men, no matter the pleasure she gives you, don’t confuse a bed material for a wife material if you want to prosper in life.
• Marry a woman who wants a lot for you and you'll be successful. Marry a woman who wants a lot from you and you'll be a failure.
• If you win with women yet aren't successful, it’s because you put energy into chasing what should chase you if you chase success.
• In this day, only foolish women follow men for money. The world has changed. Women can be as successful as any man.
• Never marry women who are expert at spending your cash. They are many of such. Marry one who is expert at managing your money.
• If you always spend money EVERY TIME you are with a girl, that's just your pocket's way of telling you she's not wife material.
• Ladies, as long as you answer your father's name, you can't expect your boyfriend to answer for your financial needs.
• Ladies, you can’t hold on to gender equality and still expect a man you are dating to foot your bills. Be equal to your bills.
• You may or may not be happy if you marry a high maintenance woman but one thing is sure, you can't get rich if you marry her.
• Guys, to be poor, marry a woman who follows fashion. To be great, marry a woman who encourages you to follow your passion.
• Guys, in your best interest consider the financial cost of maintaining a relationship with a girl before deciding to make her a wife or not.
• Girls, in your best interest date men interested in marriage not men interested in sleeping with you. S*X rhymes with EX because when they get it you become an EX.
• Ladies, don’t be sad if a relationship breaks. You are valuable and those who can’t appreciate valuable things leave them alone.
• Control your sexual urge, don’t let it control you and you'll marry a girl who adds value to your whole life, not just your bed.
• Don’t confuse romance with love. Players and prostitutes can be romantic because they have experience not because they have love.
• The most loving man isn't the one who spends money on you. The most loving girl is not the girl who lets you sleep with her.
• Many girls don’t realize that Satan was once an angel and knows how to act like one. Don't marry an angel you did not know!
• Girls, same way big heads don't automatically mean intelligence, so also having a big car doesn't automatically denote wealth.
• Ladies, not every man has food to eat at home. Be conscious of that when you dress so you don't tempt hungry men.
• Guys, a beautiful woman who makes your world very ugly by her behavior is like a beautiful poison. Both of them will kill you.
• Girls, you can’t eat love. Even if he's a fine boy, make sure he has a job or business or wants to have one before marrying him.
• Guys, life is better if you marry a girl that has big love for you than if you marry a lady because she has big bosom for you.
• Ladies, admirer and married have exactly the same words. When you have an admirer, appreciate him if you want to be married.
• Dear husband, nothing reflects the type of man you are like the condition of your wife. A happy man cannot have a sad wife.
• Husbands do not lose your temper and hit your wife or you will lose something more precious than your temper.
• A good husband has hands that build his wife up. A bad husband has hands that beat his wife up.
• You don't show a woman who is the boss by beating her up. You show her who the boss is by beating poverty up.
• A real man is not the man who shouts at his wife even when she is right, but can't even whisper to his boss when he is wrong.
• Dear husband, learn to love your wife for the qualities she has instead of judging her for the qualities she lacks.
• Wives don't nag. Praise your husband even if he doesn't deserve it and you will have him eating off the palm of your hands.
• No matter how angry you feel, don't bad mouth your wife or husband outside. Outsiders can only put a wedge where there is a crack.
• Wives, no matter how rich, famous or influential your father's house is, don't extend it to your husband's house.
• In today's world where temptation abounds everywhere, only foolish wives punish their husbands by withholding intimacy.
• Never mistake a man who has been humbled by life for a man who lives a humble life. One is by force, the other is by choice. Hence, a simple and humble person is often so much ahead of the rest.

You can add your own good counsel to the list. #DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily. Good morning, I'm wishing us the very best. Do have yourself a great day.