A relationship is a
complicated and fragile thing, especially between two people in love. It’s not
always possible to keep the relationship as it was in the early years of dating.
When the feelings are gone; not everyone is brave enough to put an end to this,
and they may start lying and deceiving each other. Hence, deceit becomes the
order of the day among the couple and partners. This is a glare sign that things
are not normal but wrong. However, if care is not taken to find reasons why
things have gone wrong, what went wrong, and solutions to the answer; couples
and partners starts lying and pretending to one another, before you know it the relationship has crashed.
It may interest you to look
at the ten changes in behaviour below that should alert you:
They
are not ready to introduce you to their parents or friends
If you have been dating
for a long time but your partner is in no hurry to introduce you to their best
friends or parents, it’s an alarming sign. Something is not okay, check it. If they’re serious about you, they
won’t hesitate. Do they say they’re not ready, while you constantly find
excuses for their behaviour? Maybe you just don’t want to face the truth: you
don’t hold an important place in your partner’s heart. Otherwise why would your partner not introduce you to the people that matters to them?
They
change the subject during a serious conversation
It’s not the best time
to have a serious conversation right after work or before going to bed. Yet if
your partner flatly refuses to talk about crucial topics even in a good moment,
maybe they’re just trying to avoid such conversations. Don't you think so? It may be a sign that
you should worry about the future of your relationship.
They
have sharp mood swings
There may be lots of
difficult situations in our lives. Sure, we’re all exposed to stress and strain. This
is why no one is safe from mood swings. Perhaps, if there are too many of them and
you’re sure it’s not about problems or stress at work. Then, I think you should consider it better to have a
heart-to-heart talk with your partner to understand what’s going on.
They
give too many gifts for no reason
Everyone likes to get gifts. Especially a woman; she feels like a real goddess when she receives one. Yet what if
there are too many gifts and the partner gives them more often than usual? Does that sends any signal to you? At first, you’ll be excited about this fact; receiving the gift. But later, doubts and logical
questions arise in your thought; why do they behave like this? Have they done something to
feel ashamed of?
You
don’t discuss plans for a shared future
Partners like to
discuss their plans for the future, especially in the first years of a
relationship. Where they will live; in a country house, let apartment, a purchased house? Where
they’ll go traveling; Paris, Dubai or Bulgaria? What pet they’ll get; a
cat or a dog? If over time one of you is no longer interested in your shared
future, don't hesitate to find the reason.
The
intimacy has long gone
An intimate life is
important for a harmonious relationship. No doubt. If there’s a lot of passion between
the partners at the beginning, it may fade over time. A total absence of
intimacy is however a worrying sign. To save your relationship, you should talk to your partner.
Try to find out what’s in their heart and why they went cold on you.
They
are irritated by excess attention and care
We often lack displays
of love and attention from our beloved, and people usually enjoy their
demonstration. Yet if you dote on your partner and they get irritated or
dissatisfied, it’s better to stop and look for the reason. Is very important.
They
are jealous for no reason
In small portions,
jealousy is a wonderful feeling. In the first years of a relationship, it’s
even pleasant because it means that you’re surely loved. Apparently, if years later
your partner starts to get jealous out of nowhere, maybe they themselves have 'unclean hands'. Don't doubt this; is very possible, just check it.
They
often stay late at work
Sometimes people who
say they work late really work late. However, sometimes it’s a banal cover for an
office romance or an unwillingness to see their partner. Why does it happen? Is a question you need to answer. Search for the answer in a calm discussion. After all, once upon a
time you both hurried home after work to dine together. So why not now?
They
worry if you touch their phone
Not everyone can stand
it when people touch their personal belongings. To them, it’s not very pleasant.
Hence if you took your partner’s phone and their reaction turned out
to be overly strong and negative, and you’re absolutely sure they don’t have
neurosis, maybe they have something to hide from you? What could that be?
Pleasant morning. It's a beautiful Saturday, do have yourself a nicest weekend. #DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily.
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