The ultimate reason why
I would be in a relationship is to feel joy and happiness always; knowing I have
a sweetheart who is not just a companion but an inspiration to my greatness. What about you? Don’t you think you deserve the same or much better? Apparently, I should let you know; you deserve to be in a
relationship that will encourage, support and make you excited about life. Some
people stay in their relationships for all the wrong reasons: comfort, safety,
stability, children, fear of being alone or what society may think. The truth
is that staying in a miserable relationship is never worth it, no matter what
your reason may be. However, if these five signs sound familiar, then it’s time
to reevaluate your relationship or put it to an end.
It
Excites You Be To Single Again
After being with one
person for a long time, you may find yourself exploring the thought of being
with other people, or just being single and “free” again. You flirt “innocently”
with people you find attractive and say hi to your exes. It is one thing to
notice that someone is attractive, but to think of waking up to them after a
hot night, instead of your partner is a no. If this gets too much, you may end
up doing something regrettable and hurt your relationship.
Your
Heart Sinks When Your Partner Calls or Texts You
Receiving calls or text
messages from your partner unexpectedly, should give you a pleasant feeling,
especially when you’re away from each other. There is nothing loving or
affectionate about not wanting to speak to your partner or feeling down when
you see a call or text from them. Something is wrong if you feel this way.
Avoiding
Intimacy
Intimacy is a good way
to judge the state of your relationship. When you love someone, their touch
alone makes you feel hot inside. Of course, this reduces as the relationship
goes on; things are not normal. Emphatically, SEX does not define a
relationship though it’s vital to having a healthy one. If you find that you
are no longer sexually attracted to your partner, sitting down with your
partner to figure out the true issue should not be overlooked.
Don’t
Enjoy Spending Time Together
Your partner is not the
first person you think of when you’re free, rather you would prefer spending
time with other friends or family. Spending quality time with your partner
feels awkward as you never have anything to talk about. Let’s say you
unexpectedly find yourself leaving work early, who would you first call to hang
out? Who do you really want to see? The first people that come to mind are
those you care about the most and find important to you. Yeah, that’s true. If
your partner isn’t the one, well ... Do the math. You deserve a relationship
with someone who will excite you, not dread spending time with.
You
Get Into Unhealthy Fights
Every couple fights. Thus,
it’s not something to really worry about. But notwithstanding, when you find
yourselves arguing over or complaining about the slightest things; it’s
something to worry about because is unhealthy. Perhaps you go through your
partner’s private messages trying to know what’s going on, and probably looking
for a reason to argue. This is something you shouldn’t be doing. Fights should
be settled with mature conversations. But when you or your partner acts
destructively or attempts to inflict physical or emotional pain on the other,
then it becomes an unhealthy relationship and one or both of you doesn’t have
much love and respect for the relationship.
#DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily.
Good evening; I have no doubt you enjoyed the weekend. Have a pleasant rest.
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