Guys and Ladies: Signs and Questions To Know If You Have Found Mr Or Miss Right

The expectation of every healthy relationship is that it will lead to marriage. Apparently dating relationship is meant to explore compatibility for marriage; about seventy per cent (70%) out of hundred have failed this test. Hence, ladies, because you’re dating him today does not guarantee automatic ticket for marriage tomorrow. Perhaps, there’re certain qualities you should look out for in a man even as you make yourself Miss right for him; that makes him a dream husband for you, and a soul mate that you would want to live your entire life with until death you part.

Below are twelve questions and twenty-two signs that will help you know if he or she is Mr or Miss compatibility for you.

Does He Add Value To Your Life And Inspire You To Grow?

Aside love, comfort, joy and the entire good things one may desire and get in a relationship, it’s very important that both partners encourage each other and be source inspiration to one another. What love will a guy have for you that won’t add value to you, and make you a better you. Without inspiration and motivation, growth and self-development might become impossible. You’re meant to bring out the best in each other.

Does He Express How Much He Loves And Adore You?

Love demonstrates itself always. It does not take only February 14 or birthdays to show love or adore someone who is very dear to you. Thus, demonstration of affection does not necessarily mean buying of gift or taking you out on a date. A play guy who is only interested in seeing your undies would pretend and go any length.

Does He Respect You, And Elders?

Respect is very in important in relationship just as it is for a child to respect the parents. A guy who cannot respect you for you, and have no regard for the elders is not worthy of your love, talk more of being in relationship with you. No matter what he does for you; the comfort and money he gives you. I wonder which comfort will be better than earning or having the respect of your partner. His respect is a better demonstration of how much he loves and adores you.

Does He Always Want Things His Way?

Your opinion matters in your relationship with him. No one has monopoly of knowledge or ideas. No matter how brilliant his ideas might be, is important you do not just give your opinion on issues that affect you both, but your opinion be considered if it's better. So your opinion is as important as his and should be valued.

Does He Cheer You Up or Always Blame You?

If what he does better is to blame you; let you know how ugly you’re and how you’re not good enough; then I wonder what he wants from you. The least you need and deserves from him is to cheer up especially when you’re sad, moody and facing one challenge or another. If he truly loves you he would put smiles on your face always, and make sure you become better than the way he met you.

Does He Always Clutch Up On You?

It’s very awkward if your partner is always checking your phone to know every detail of your chat, messages, and conversations. Thus, it does not show maturity that a guy would want to monitor or know all movements and every step you take. If he does not give you breathing space; he is too clingy that you don’t feel free being with him, it means he is not the answer you seek.

Is He Trustworthy?

Trust I’m sure is one thing you would not want to joke with, especially in a relationship. If he’s not trustworthy now you should not think that marriage will make him trustworthy. Don't give him excuse and marry him, because your marriage will suffer if you can’t trust.

Does He Bear Grudges?

Grudge is like a cancer that eats up cells in the body. Hence, it mars ones opinion, decision, reasoning and attitude. It’s very difficult for someone with grudge to forgive; because he will always remind you of what you did wrong even when you have apologised and taken corrections. The worst is that you may receive punishment and aggression for wrongs you never knew you did.

Does He Get Mad At Your Flaw?

Is not a bad thing to get angry, but getting furiously mad when angry is a big problem. How he reacts when he is angry is very important; does he walk away or turn you to a punching bag, does he shout or keeps mute? One who cannot control his anger could be very dangerous. It does not matter what you have done or what flaw you have; is not an excuse to get mad at you in the name anger.

Does He Apportion Blames?

A more responsible and mature guy takes responsibility of his actions and inaction; hence he does not apportion blame when things has gone, rather he seeks for solution. Thus if your partner isn’t owing up to his mistakes, he isn’t mature enough to be the dream husband as he would always look for who to blame.

Does He Keep Secret From You?

If he never confides in you of his fears and secrets, then he may be hiding something very important you should know from you. Though your partner may want to surprise with something by keeping it away from your knowledge for the time being, but out-rightly hiding it could mean he's keeping secrecy. You may marry a kidnapper without knowing.

Does He Correct You When You’re Wrong?

Correction makes you better and builds you up. Thus, is important your man corrects you in love whenever you’re wrong. If he does not do this and yet get mad at your mistakes and flaws, I question if he loves you.

Signs You Have Found Mr or Miss Right:

1. They surprise you for no other reason than to see a smile on your face

2. They listen to you, really listen, when you talk

3. You miss them when they're gone

4. You can see a future with them

5. You genuinely want them in your life

6. You love them as not just a lover, but as a person

7. You have similar interests and goals

8. Still, they teach you new things

9. They want the best for you

10. And they always lift you up

11. They're okay with helping you when you need a favor

12. They complement you without being prompted

13. They get along with your family

14. They follow through on their promises

15. Your friends like them

16. Their little quirks only bother you for a little bit, but you know it doesn't make or break them

17. They never make rude, mean or hurtful comments

18. They never talk negatively about your appearance

19. When you both fight, you fight fair (no name-calling)

20. They can make you smile just by looking at them

21. They can make a bad day good just knowing you'll get to talk to them about it

22. They will be honest with you, and will appreciate you doing the same

#DubemickyInspiringGreatnessDaily. Happy Sunday, and good afternoon. I wish you have a fruitful week ahead.