Happiness is an individual choice. Notwithstanding how true this is, many people fail to take responsibility for what they allow to get in between their happiness and fulfilment. Obviously, not realising this truth is a serious and grievous mistake. Perhaps, every choice is influenced by the people in our lives. If you change your life influencers for the better, you can dramatically increase your chances of happiness and success.
Research confirms that positive social connection is the greatest predictor of long-term happiness. Hence, welcoming a positive influencer into your world can be one of the most important choices for happiness that you'll ever make. It does not matter what the profession or career of the positive influencer is. The person might be a professional life coach or a mentor. Someone who commands respect. Someone who has the positive outlook you want to emulate.
Now, I'm sure you can identify a positive influencer and thus will take responsibility for your happiness and fulfilment? Anyway, in case you're still not sure; a positive influencer will have a few outstanding traits that rub off on you over time. Yeah! He or she will be a person that practices gratitude. The person seeks joy daily and works at becoming the best of him or herself. Positive influencer enjoys being active and feels connected to others. His or she is not a soloist.
Have you thought about the negative influencers around you? These are people who focus on the bad things in their lives and make you do exactly same. You should know today that when associating with such people, you’ll be left searching for problems to worry over. Negative influencers don’t smile or laugh easily. They have trouble maintaining relationships. Apparently, they see stress as a threat rather than a challenge to embrace. I admonish you to stay away from individuals, they won't benefit your life.
Yeah, happiness is a choice. However, we continually need to be reminded and encouraged by people to make that choice, especially when life gets challenging. I admonish again, think about the people you know that could be positive influencers. Then I encourage you to spend more time with someone who will improve your happiness and lead you to greater success and fulfilment.
Do have yourself an excellent day and fruitful week ahead.
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Do have yourself an excellent day and fruitful week ahead.
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